A Face Haz de Necaz

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By Constant Walker

The Merry Cemetery of Romania

Stan Ioan Patras
Stan Ioan Patras
Televangelist?
Televangelist?
Everybody's friend
Everybody's friend
Triplets?
Triplets?
Restaurant workers?
Restaurant workers?
Police, military?
Police, military?
Animal husbandry?
Animal husbandry?
The locals on Sunday
The locals on Sunday

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This story was written for and published at RussiaToday.com in Spetember 2008.

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The Craftsman

"Life is beautiful, very beautiful! But in this place, even death after life does greatly please, thanks to you, craftsman! Thank you for this moment of truth."

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This passage is written in the golden book of craftsman Stan Ioan Patras (1908 - 1977), by Swiss Honore Bayard. Patras was a Romanian wood sculptor and the original creator of the fanciful tombstones of the Merry Cemeteryin Sapanta, Maramures County, Romania. At first, working mostly alone, he only carved about ten a year, because his methods, still practiced to this day, are painstaking: The oak is cut into beams and allowed to dry one to two years. They're then hewn into thick planks, arranged in stacks and dried for several more months. Only then does the sculptor begin his work. The geometric motifs and dedications are drawn and painted by hand, then the crosses are sculpted and painted "Sapanta blue" - a symbol of hope and freedom, inspired, Patras said, by the sky.

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A Tradition of Woodcarving

Stan Patras was born into a family with a long tradition of woodcarving. In his youth, Stan was attracted to sculpting, painting and poetry and started to sculpt oak crosses when he was fourteen. It was in 1935 that he began carving poems onto tombstones, written in first person style: Ironic poems, complete with grammatical errors, in the archaic language of the locals.

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The Merry Cemetery diverges from the typical European attitude of cemeteries and death as solemn and serious places and occasions. And because of the tradition of Stan Patras, the Merry Cemetery, although still a place of prayer and to be with deceased loved ones, is far from solemn. The grave sites are planted with bright flowers and the headstones themselves rise up like big blue floral arrangements. The paintings and epitaphs are typically written with humor (and not always, it would seem, flattering) and still in the first person, as if narrated by the deceased themselves - as Patras did for his own tombstone, of which he designed and sculpted himself. Dumitru Pop, whom studied with Patras since the age of nine, now does the bulk of the carving, along with other students.

When Patras died, he left his home to Dumitru who chose to live there, then later turned it into a workshop and museum.

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The Celebration of Life

The residents of Sapanta strictly adhere to the traditions of the Orthodox religion, and it is an honor to be part of the church committee. On Sunday everyone, young and old alike, dress in national costume and put aside their differences, making ready for the days joyful festivities. To the Romanian peasant, death is not to be grieved or feared, but celebrated as the passing - by way of the cross as the gateway - to a place of eternal peace.

Much like the Irish Wake, the relatives of the deceased in the Merry Cemetery do not mourn. They drink and make merry, celebrating the life of the loved one. The entire life of the village is featured in this whimsical cemetery: the musician, the doctor, the drunk, the housewife. All rest eternally, side by side, in joyous peace.

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"a face haz de necaz"

-Make fun of Trouble

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The Merry Cemetery - narrated by Dumitru Pop

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Paraglider profile image

Paraglider Level 5 Commenter 3 years ago

Fascinating read. I wonder how well they will weather with time. Probably pretty gracefully as the oak is well seasoned.

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marisuewrites 3 years ago

What ceremony to bury the dead and recognize their life.  The carvings are remarkable!  Makes some of our headstones pale by comparison, these things take years to do!!  Absolutely astounding work for a cemetary, these craftsman are great artists!  

thanks, Constant, this is very interesting...I wonder if the A Frame on top points to the sky as part of their tradition and beliefs or is it just style?

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Ya, I think so, too. Thanks for reading, Para.

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks, Marisue. That's possible. They view the cross as a gateway...

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countrywomen 3 years ago

Is this cemetry close to the capital Bucharest. One of these days when I have lots of money would like to take euro trip.

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countrywomen 3 years ago

I agree death isn't to be feared. In fact when a child is born we are not sure of the trials and tribulations but still laugh/enjoy those moments but when natural death strikes we should also reflect that the person has completed those trials and pray for his/her soul to be happy/rest in peace.

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

I don't know how close Romania is to Bucharest, but it would easy enough to find out online, right?

I too agree that when a person dies, their life should be celebrated.

Thanks for reading this!

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ClaudiaP 3 years ago

Hey! I've just moved to the US from Romania. This Merry Cemetery is very close to where I come from and I surely visited it more than once. This is a good article, but you'd have to be Romanian and be able to read the original poems on the tombs to get the whole picture. Those poems are really something! I laughet so hard at some! This place is something unique and reveals the Romanian philosophy of life which translated would be "make fun of trobule" (in Romanian it is "a face haz de necaz" and it rhymes).

As to your question above, Bucharest is the capital of Romania and it is situated in the Southern part, while this Cemetery is up North, in Maramures, which is where I come from. If you go there this time of the year there are plenty of places to go skiing and it is not expensive either. The Christmas and New Years' traditions there are something else! I look forward to going back there! I miss that place and especially the people!

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Claudia, thank you for reading this article. Very cool to some someone from there give their opinion. Very appreaciated! Can I use that quote, in Romanian?

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ClaudiaP 3 years ago

Yes, you surely can use the quote. And if you have any other questions about Romania I would be most glad to answer. :)

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thank you, Claudia, and I will certainly keep that in mind.

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G-Ma Johnson Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Very interesting and I love the beautiful and colorful way they honor their dead...It should be a happy thing as well as birth is. It is only sad for us left behind...Nice Job CW you are a dear...G-Ma :o) hugs...(p.s. I am catching up hee hee)

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

-G-Ma, thanks for reading and for the nice comments. Definitely a unique place, eh? You touched on a question I've always had regarding religion: For those who truly believe in Heaven, shouldn't the death of a loved one be a happy thing?

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G-Ma Johnson Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Well my dear yes...but is always sad to think you will be without them...as we are only human and become attached to each other...and it is a happy time...for me when my younger sister died...after 5 yrs. of suffering everything you can imagine with breast cancer...when she passed and left 4 children behind...I was glad to see her not suffer...she looked so peaceful and calm...but we were all sad for what her young children would have to go through...they have done well and in her honor always will...So I would say Happiness is learned, earned and always a hard thing to truly understand...

Pheww...was that what you wanted to hear...I sorta got off on it here...Love G-Ma :o) (p.s. we are almost neighbors :o)

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

-G-Ma, I know we're almost neighbors. That was a good answer. It is certainly good to see the suffering of a loved one end... but also, they are gone. I cannot imagine going through the death of a family member. I know I will most likely have to do it, and I fear it more than I fear my own death... but, that's life, eh? I hope I will handle it with dignity... for their sake.

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Cris A Level 2 Commenter 3 years ago

isn't it amazing how diverse we are culturally? even a very universal phenomenon such as death is "celebrated" differently and extremely so! thanks for sharing this, it's the first time I've heard of it :D

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks for reading, Cris. Yes, it is amazing how diverse the world is. That is precisely one of my favorite things about HubPages. It is a microscopic version of the world we live in: Diverse and represented by all imaginable types, both good and bad.

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Cris A Level 2 Commenter 3 years ago

LOL i'm laughing at my comment before this! I noticed while i was reading your response that I put open and close quotes ("") in CELEBRATED! As if I didn't want you to think that I celebrate death which is actually not a bad thing basing on the hub I commented upon which I didn't find sacrilegious at all (ie celebrating death)!. Crazy! Must be my Catholic upbringing! LOL

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Pretty good. A Catholic upbringing is something many never get over.

I can respect the concept of something like the Merry Cemetery. Death is going to happen, and even our stubborn belief in religion cannot stop it (dilude ourselves as we may) so why not make it a "Merry" occasion, if it will ease the pain of losing a loved one.

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Lgali 3 years ago

very nicely written

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thank you, Lgali.

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G-Ma Johnson Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Oh CW you will handle it with Pride I am sure...and tears are always ok..in fact good...and sadness goes away because Time waits for no one my dear...I seem to feel you are close to your mom since you two played those brain games all day...That is Nice...and you will be ok...G-Ma :o) Hugs

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks G-Ma, yes we are close. I have a lot of family, but they're scattered around the country - mostly the western states. It's just mom and I here and we are there for each other. Her help to me recently has been invaluable. I doubt I would have made it through all this had it not been for her.

Hugs back atcha...

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G-Ma Johnson Level 4 Commenter 3 years ago

Awww sounds nice to me...and I am behind I am sure cause I have no idea what you've been through...but there's no one like a Mother...God Bless you my dear...G-Ma :o) Hugs

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Constant Walker Hub Author 3 years ago

Thanks! Isn't family great?

I wrote a hub about it - self-therapy - ("I'm No Superman"), which surprised me 'cause I didn't think I would be into writing at all for a while

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